Blind Dates In Utah: This Is What You’ll Find

If you’ve been in the dating scene in Utah at all, you’ve probably had your share of odd things happen, especially if they were blind dates.  

Now, blind dates aren’t all that popular these days with dating apps being so prevalent, but they can happen...if you find someone to set them up or go to some sort of event. I had the opportunity to go on a few and found out a few things.  

No, this isn’t hate toward any of the guys and these things can happen on any kind of first-time date. However, going on dates is extremely daunting and, most times, a little disappointing. Maybe it’s because people are dishonest or because they expect too much. 

For me, my expectations were as follows: See if we have anything in common, did the conversation flow, would I hang out again, did I want to leave ASAP.  

So, pretty basic, low-expectation stuff.  

4 Things I Found Out Going on Blind Dates in Utah 

#1 There Are A LOT of Guys Out There  

I met up with four different guys from various walks of life. A door-to-door salesman manager, a guy who works seasonally, a video producer, and a guy who was going around the country for climbing spots.  

Out of all of these individuals, guess who had the best manners and conversational ability? The climber and the seasonal job guy. Unexpected but EASY conversation flowed, and I had a great time.  

However, the only downside I had was the seasonal job guy asked for my number and never texted me back. Weird but okay.  

#2 I Could Tell Who Actually Wanted to Be There 

Men, or anyone really, it is SO obvious when you would rather be doing literally anything else. Effort is a two-way street in this instance and having to put in all the work is pretty awful.  

One date was up front that he was an introvert. I totally get that because most of the time I prefer my home where my dog is. All my favorite stuff is there and being awkward isn’t a concern.  

But if I am going out, it's because I chose to be out and am looking to make conversation. Asking me two or three questions when I have asked you several is not cool. Basically, one date made me want to leave ASAP, had many awkward silences, and I did not want to hang out again. Perhaps he felt the same but...maybe say no to the date if you don’t want to talk, like at all.  

#3 Honesty Is Dead 

It's unfortunate but anyone who has been on dating apps knows that many people lie about what they are looking for, what they do, or what they value. Now, I do know that everyone puts their best foot forward in this case but, swerving too far from the truth is hurtful.  

None of these guys were looking for anything serious except one. However, his situation didn’t make me feel that I could handle seeing him further. Great guy, truly a nice person but, his age and commitments didn’t align with my life.  

Also, he was a little TOO honest on our first date. I know a bit more than made me comfortable, but the honesty was somewhat refreshing.  

That said, most of the guys asked for my number, out of politeness I assume, and never messaged back or reached out. No need for that, simply say you had a nice time, and we can part ways.  

It gives you some hope when someone asks for your number but if you have no intention of seeing them again, just don’t do it.  

#4 Dating Apps or Friend Connections Is the Way to Go 

Ultimately, I had three good dates out of the four blind ones I went on, but nothing came of them. This is true of dating apps but at least there is a chance to decide if the person seems interested.  

I probably wouldn’t go on a blind date again unless a super close friend recommended someone.  

As annoying as it is, and as untruthful as people can be, dating apps are still more solid than blind dates. However, blind dates can be a fun experience and who knows? You might even get lucky and find someone you truly click with.