Let me first start with saying I am not a relationship expert.  

Just like everybody else, I’m doing the best I can as a husband and father and hoping that gets me into heaven at some point.

That being said, I have been married for 18 wonderful years, and during that time I have learned a lot. Mostly by trial and error, because I’m the kind of guy who doesn’t know the stove is hot until he’s put his hand on it.

I am also a professional wedding officiant, and I have had the privilege of performing weddings for hundreds and hundreds of couples, and I usually ask each one what they argue about. Here are 15 of the most common arguments that people have told me they have.

I am confirdent that every one of these disagreements can be resolved if both parties are committed to resolving them. HOWEVER...Some of them can be taken to such extremes, that professional help may need to be obtained.

I can tell you from my own personal experience and from the experience of many others, seeing a professional therapist or licensed counselor to help sort out your relationship issues is very, very wise.  It's a lot cheaper and easier to pay a therapist than it is to pay a lawyer if you know what I mean.

So how normal is your relationship? Let’s find out.

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